A personal view of 'Who Let The Dads Out'

Jeremy Black is a local Who Let The Dads Out? volunteer and is part of the national leadership team. Here he talks about how the group at Hoole Baptist Church in Cheshire helped him discover what it means to be a dad, in the company of other dads.

My initial reason for going to Who Let The Dads Out? was actually the ‘suggestion’ from my wife that going along ‘might be a good idea’.

First experiences included a warm welcome at the door, nice coffee, bacon sandwiches and Saturday’s papers - all of which contributed to the sociable atmosphere. Mainly, though, it was the thing itself – being a dads’ playgroup – which made it special. In my experience, it’s unusual to have a non-competitive, non task-oriented event for men, and this creates the special atmosphere.

For my family, Who Let The Dads Out? means a break for my wife but, far more importantly, a space for me to be with my two boys; a space that is shared with other dads.

From a faith point of view, I would say that rather than being an overtly Christian experience, there is a deep sense that this is the fruit of people’s faith in action, serving others. It’s unspoken, but nevertheless clear, that the church provides the foundation for Who Let The Dads Out?, both in the buildings and faith of its leaders.

Last Updated 06 December 2010